Dear Haya,
I work in the development sector and have recently quit my first job where I was working at an entry-level position. However, I'm currently facing a dilemma.
I had applied to several organisations following my resignation and am currently receiving interview calls from at least four different places, one of which has also made an offer. But I'm extremely conflicted on whether I should take this offer or give interviews to the other places as well.
I feel really grateful that at a time when people are struggling to find jobs, I already have an offer and also expect receiving positive responses from the other places. But I'm really indecisive about which organisation I will go for eventually. While all are reputable in terms of their standing, I am conflicted over the position and money being offered.
Would you have any tips on how to make the final decision eventually?
Response to the Confused Professional,
First of all, congratulations on securing multiple interview opportunities and even an offer — this is a strong testament to your skills and the value you bring to the development sector.
Decision-making, especially when it involves your career and future, can bring up feelings of uncertainty, pressure, and even self-doubt. It’s wonderful that you have multiple opportunities, but I also recognise that having too many choices can sometimes feel overwhelming rather than liberating.
To help you gain clarity, let's break this decision down into key factors.
Define Your Long-Term Career Goals
- What are your long-term career goals?
- Where do you see yourself in the next two, three, and five years?
- Which role aligns most closely with your career vision?
Define Your Values
- What values matter most to you in an organisation?
- What are the values of each organisation you’re considering?
- What is their work culture like?
- Do their values align with yours?
Define Your Financial Priorities
- What are your financial needs at this stage?
- How much importance does salary hold in your decision-making?
- Are there trade-offs you’re willing to make for a better learning experience or career growth?
Identify What Matters Most Right Now
- Which factors are most important at this stage in my career? (For example, learning opportunities, salary, work-life balance, impact of the work, organisational culture, growth potential)
- Which factors am I willing to compromise on, and which are non-negotiable?
Compare Each Opportunity Objectively
Create a simple comparison chart to evaluate each opportunity based on:
- Alignment with career goals.
- Growth potential.
- Workplace culture.
- Compensation and benefits.
Trust the Process and Give Yourself Permission to Explore
Since you already have an offer but also have pending interviews, there’s no harm in exploring them further. You can inform the employer that you need some additional time to make a well-informed decision.
Listen to Your Intuition
After all the logical analysis, take a moment to check in with yourself—how does each option feel? Often, our instincts provide valuable insight when facts alone don’t seem to be enough.
Set a Decision-Making Deadline
Indecision can be mentally exhausting. Give yourself a reasonable timeframe; for example, one or two weeks, to weigh your options.
You're in a great position, and whatever choice you make will be a step forward. Trust yourself — you’ve already done the hard work to get here!
Wishing you clarity and success.
— Haya
Haya Malik is a psychotherapist, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) practitioner, corporate well-being strategist and trainer with expertise in creating organisational cultures focused on well-being and raising awareness around mental health.
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